We ask questions every day, but not every question receives an effective answer. Often, we think we are asking a question, but we are merely expressing an opinion; we think we are focusing, but we are actually diverging; we think others can respond, but in reality, they have no way to start.

So, how can we ask a truly good question?


I. Five Key Features of a Good Question

1. It must be a question, not just an opinion

Many people frame questions like: “I think … right?” This is more about seeking validation rather than exploring facts or possibilities. A real question should carry uncertainty — the asker genuinely does not know the answer and is open to different responses.

Example:

“Why has it become harder to concentrate in modern society? Is it driven by technology or by changes in human nature?”


2. It must be one question, not a bundle of unrelated ones

Throwing out ten questions at once may look “comprehensive,” but leaves the respondent unable to reply effectively. A good question has a single core focus. In other words: one discussion, one issue.

Example (Computer Science):

“In programming, why do some algorithms have a time complexity of O(n), while others are O(n²)? What does that mean for program speed?”


3. It must be a question others can and want to answer

The asker needs to think from the other side: Is my question clear and specific enough for others to draw on their knowledge or experience to respond? Does it spark their interest or resonance?

Features of a good question:


4. Choose between closed or open, not in-between

Questions generally take two effective forms:

Ambiguous “half-closed, half-open” questions often stall conversations.

Examples:


5. Asking is an invitation

A question is not an interrogation or a performance, but an invitation to dialogue. A good question is not just for “getting an answer,” but for sparking thinking, discussion, and resonance.

A bad question feels like a “test,” while a good question feels like “lighting a spark.”


II. Growth Path of Questioning: From High School to University

Beyond universal standards, students at different stages ask good questions in different ways.

High School: Build foundations, ask specific solvable questions

→ Feature: Helps strengthen and solidify foundational knowledge.


University: Explore and critique, ask open-ended questions leading to the unknown

→ Feature: Pushes thinking toward exploration and research.


After Graduation: Entering society, ask questions that drive action

→ Feature: Questions are not just about knowledge but about decision-making, collaboration, and responsibility.


III. Growth Path of Questioning (Diagram)

  graph TD
    A[High School] -->|Build Foundation| B[University]
    B -->|Explore & Critique| C[After Graduation]
    
    A --> A1[Clear Focus: Ask specific steps]
    A --> A2[Build Connections: Ask related concepts]
    A --> A3[Follow Up: Extend thinking]
    
    B --> B1[Within Frameworks: Verify assumptions]
    B --> B2[Cross-disciplinary: Connect fields]
    B --> B3[Research-oriented: Point to the unknown]
    
    C --> C1[Workplace Focus: Identify bottlenecks]
    C --> C2[Action-oriented: Options & risks]
    C --> C3[Value-driven: Long-term impact]

IV. Conclusion

The ability to ask good questions is itself a reflection of thinking, communication, and insight. Whether in high school, university, or the workplace, a good question is often more valuable than the answer.

Good Question = Real uncertainty + Single focus + Answerable & engaging + Clear orientation (closed or open) + Invitation to dialogue.

Once you start regularly asking yourself, “How can I ask this better?” you are already becoming a better learner, doer, and thinker.

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Author: Hugo Narrow

Link: https://gary-yin.com/posts/how-to-ask-a-good-question-a-growth-path-from-student-to-thinker/

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